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Why did my ex move on so quickly?

10.06.2025 00:28

Why did my ex move on so quickly?

What I suspect you really want to know, is one or more specific questions.

or if they moved on fast because they can control their emotions like a simple light bulb;

Different tack: I don’t think you asked what you want to know, you asked what you’ve heard other people ask.

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

and so on.

or if they moved on quickly because they were secretly starting up with their current person before you broke up;

Of the ones I was able to talk to about it all rationally later, some of them admitted they “used” a new “hook up” the same way some people use drugs, to dull the upset over our breakup; some said (perhaps as revenge) that I was easy to replace; some said they just got lucky. Most didn’t stay with the quick replacement, but a few even “panic married” the replacement, as part of being upset about the breakup.

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Such as, if your ex moved on fast because they never actually loved you;

I know from my own “misadventures” in love, that my ex’s were able to move on quickly because they were more attractive than I am, and far less shy, and sometimes because they were far less picky than I am.